his mistakes.

TRUST:

–noun

1.	reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence.

-- is it fair to compare an innocent man that is doing everything to prove his love & affection, to a man that did nothing but hurt you ? GUILTY, is all you see when you look at him, even before a crime he's already been judged. He's being charged & blamed for pain that he didn't cause you. Isn't it unfair to have to pay for something you didn't break?

most of the time we get so caught up in comparing & judging the next man, that we never stop & realize that this man is here to care for us, not leave us with a scar across our heart. as hard as he may try there's never any winning. i know learning to trust someone after being hurt can be a very difficult step to take but, we need to lift our heads & think that if we base our future on someone that did nothing but waste our time we're never going to get anywhere. so why keep giving these guys such a hard time.. they're not all bad we need to just take a chance & try to find the good in them... if as babies we would of gave up on walking after the first fall where would we be?

we got up & tried it again. so advice to myself & everyone else with trust issues is, just keep trying.. there's a somebody for everyone... just remember don't let the wrongs of someone else tear you guys apart because he just might get tired of paying for something he didn't do. ...

--redvelvet cupcake